Merlyn Parmely
May 31, 1935 ~ April 13, 2013
Served by: Luce, Luze & Reck Funeral Homes
Merlyn Parmely, 77, of Miller, died Saturday, April 13, 2013 at the Avera Hand County Memorial Hospital. Funeral services will be at 11:00 a.m., Friday, April 19 at the First Presbyterian Church in Miller with Rev. Brian Jones officiating. Visitation will be Thursday, April 18 from 5:00-7:00 p.m. with a 7:00 p.m. prayer service all at Rembold Funeral Home. Burial will be at G.A.R. Cemetery.
Merlyn Parmely was born May 31, 1935 at Keeline, Wyoming, the son of Archie and Bertha (Daugherty) Parmely. His family moved back to South Dakota in 1940. He attended rural and St. Lawrence schools, graduating in 1954 from St. Lawrence High School. Upon the death of his father, Merlyn became involved in farming at an early age.
Merlyn married Marilyn Raske on June 1, 1956 at the Presbyterian Church in Miller, SD, and to this union four children were born. The couple spent their lives together on a farm south of St. Lawrence until her death on September 6, 1976. He continued farming and later married Bernice Schubloom on July 13, 1979.
Merlyn enjoyed spending time with his family, farming, fishing, hunting, snowmobiling, camping, visiting with neighbors and his dogs.
He is survived by his wife Bernice; son, Mike Parmely (Roxanne Oakley) of Holabird, SD; daughter, Sandra (Neil) Stevens of Miller, SD; son, Rod (Jean) Parmely of Watertown, SD; and son Jeff (Margie) Parmely of Miller, SD; 12 grandchildren; Brad Parmely, Eric Parmely, Grady Oakley, Cole Oakley, Jessica (Stevens) Oolman, Casie Stevens, Andrea (Stevens) Jones, Clate Stevens, Jay Parmely, Jenna Parmely, Tara Parmely, and Trevor Parmely; and 6 great-grandchildren; Joslynn Parmely, Montana Parmely, Jerzy Parmely, Brayden Oolman, Jace Oolman, and Mia Jones.
Merlyn was preceded in death by his first wife, Marilyn, parents, and seven brothers; Donald, Clarence, Leo, LaVerne, Harold, Arvy, and Clayton Jr.
Merlyn Parmely was born May 31, 1935 at Keeline, Wyoming, the son of Archie and Bertha (Daugherty) Parmely. His family moved back to South Dakota in 1940. He attended rural and St. Lawrence schools, graduating in 1954 from St. Lawrence High School. Upon the death of his father, Merlyn became involved in farming at an early age.
Merlyn married Marilyn Raske on June 1, 1956 at the Presbyterian Church in Miller, SD, and to this union four children were born. The couple spent their lives together on a farm south of St. Lawrence until her death on September 6, 1976. He continued farming and later married Bernice Schubloom on July 13, 1979.
Merlyn enjoyed spending time with his family, farming, fishing, hunting, snowmobiling, camping, visiting with neighbors and his dogs.
He is survived by his wife Bernice; son, Mike Parmely (Roxanne Oakley) of Holabird, SD; daughter, Sandra (Neil) Stevens of Miller, SD; son, Rod (Jean) Parmely of Watertown, SD; and son Jeff (Margie) Parmely of Miller, SD; 12 grandchildren; Brad Parmely, Eric Parmely, Grady Oakley, Cole Oakley, Jessica (Stevens) Oolman, Casie Stevens, Andrea (Stevens) Jones, Clate Stevens, Jay Parmely, Jenna Parmely, Tara Parmely, and Trevor Parmely; and 6 great-grandchildren; Joslynn Parmely, Montana Parmely, Jerzy Parmely, Brayden Oolman, Jace Oolman, and Mia Jones.
Merlyn was preceded in death by his first wife, Marilyn, parents, and seven brothers; Donald, Clarence, Leo, LaVerne, Harold, Arvy, and Clayton Jr.
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Dear Parmely Family,
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your dear husband, father, and grandfather. It was a privledge to know Merlyn and we always enjoyed his company. May God bless, console and keep you as
celebrate Merlyn’s life. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. With love, Harold and Peg and family.
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Merlyn. He was such a kind man who cherished times with family and friends. For so many years our families lived close to each other in Pearl Township and enjoyed many happy times together. He was always a good friend to my parents, Fred and Evelyn. May you have many memories to cherish of your time with Merlyn.
Our family joins you in your loss of Merlyn. The miles between us have been frustrating. The few times spent with Mother’s cousin, have been a joy!
Judy, Joe Paulson and Helen Daugherty Hostvet
Bernice & family – wanted to send our thoughts and prayers to you today. We will all miss Merlyn and remember all the times he was there to help his fellow farmers. He always was a hard worker but always carried that smile that will live on forever with all of us. May God be with you all.
Bernice and Family,
You and family are in our thoughts and prayers. Merlyn was such a wonderful individual and we really enjoyed our time with him during the hunting seasons. I will never forget his caring personality, great smile and general wisdom about anything you could ever want to know. Even though we were not part of the Parmely family he sure made us feel like we were. May God bless all of you with comfort and peace.
Jeff Krumm and Family.
Rod, Jean, Jay & Jenna,
Extending our deepest sympathy in the loss of your father & grandfather. May God’s grace and the hope of His promises embrace you and your extended family now and always.
To the Parmely Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family. May your loving memories give you great comfort.
I don’t think I’ll ever forget Merlyn’s happy persona—every time I saw him he was wearing that radiant smile and was ready to visit. Rest in peace, Merlyn; my thoughts are with you and your entire family.
Bernice, sending our sympathy to you and Merlyn’s children and families.
Our sympathies are with your family.
Berneice, you and the kids have my
sincere sympathy.i
Bernice, My thoughts and prayers are with you. My Steve thought the world of you and Merlyn. Take care, Jan
I am So Sorry for Your Loss and In finding this so late an not knowing if this even gets to Uncle Merlyn’s Wife and Kids!