Kubria Flying By-Tomko
May 26, 2012 ~ May 1, 2015
Served by: Luce, Luze & Reck Funeral Homes
Kubria R. Flying By-Tomko “Baby Rain”, age 2 years and 11 months, of Cherry Creek, passed away Friday, May 1, 2015 in Clarksville, TN.
Funeral services will be 10:00 a.m., MST, Wednesday, May 13, 2015, at the HVJ Lakota Cultural Center, Eagle Butte with Father Adam Hofer presiding. Burial will follow in the UCC Cemetery, Cherry Creek, SD. Two-night wake services will begin at 6:00 p.m., MST, Monday, May 11, 2015 at the Cultural Center with Father Dan Juelfs presiding. Services will commence with a procession at the four mile corner east of town at 4:00 p.m. on Monday. Visitation will be at the Cultural Center beginning the evening of May 11, 2015 until the morning funeral service on May 13, 2015.
Kubria Rain Flying By-Tomko “Baby Rain”, was a beautiful child loved by many. She is the daughter of Thomas N. Tomko II of Clarksville, TN and Cora Flying By of Cherry Creek, SD. Her paternal grandmother is Melaine L. Tomko of Clarksville, TN and her maternal grandparents are Teresita Blue Arm and Myron Flying By of Cherry Creek, SD. Baby Rain lived in Cherry Creek with her mommy’s family for her first year and a half of her life. Then she lived in Clarksville, TN with her daddy’s family for the remaining year and a half of her life. God gave each family an equal share of her love and laughter.
Although she graced us with her presence here on earth for only 3 years, she had made a huge impact on everyone who crossed her path. We all have our own special memories of Baby Rain; she was such a big person in a little body. Baby Rain enjoyed life to the fullest; she was determined to experience as much as possible. Baby Rain showed us the true meaning of love and happiness; she showed us the miracle in everything.
Baby Rain would tell us to “bring surprise” whenever we had to leave for a few hours or a few days. She loved opening presents – she was very meticulous when removing the wrapping, ensuring every piece of paper was removed before looking the gift over. Some of her favorite holidays were Easter, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and her birthday. She also enjoyed the fireworks during New Years and Independence Day. Baby Rain loved family gatherings very much; it brought smiles to her face and happy giggles to see a lot of people in the same room.
Baby Rain loved being a princess. She enjoyed wearing princess shoes and dressing up in her princess gowns; she especially loved wearing her Queen Elsa dress. She recently added an Elsa tiara, gloves, and shoes to her ensemble. However, before getting all dressed up, she would have her grandma Melaine put her hair into one French braid just like the one Elsa wore. Baby Rain would wear her gowns to her favorite store, Walmart, and out to restaurants and shopping. She loved the smiles and compliments she received from perfect strangers.
Baby Rain enjoyed playing with balloons, playdoh, play makeup, and jewelry. She also enjoyed fixing puzzles, watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Sofia the First, Masha and the Bear, Peppa Pig, and her favorite movie, Frozen. She loved doing the Hot Dog dance, taking baths with her Minnie Mouse yacht and boats, playing with tea sets, and playing with the family dogs, Maximus “Nax” and Ameera “Nah”. Baby Rain loved doing things outdoors just has equally as she enjoyed her indoor activities.
Baby Rain looked forward to playing in the snow, making snow angels, filling up and playing in her swimming pool, playing with water, riding her scooters, wagon, and tricycle. She also enjoyed chasing and popping bubbles, going on walks, picking flowers, playing at the parks (notably trying every slide), sword fighting with noodles, squirt gun fights, roller skating, and most especially, playing in the rain.
Rain’s favorite past times were jumping, shopping, painting, painting with wet wipes, chalk drawing, being on the computer, iPad, LeapPad, and using her grandma Melaine’s phone to watch videos or calling her daddy. She also enjoyed listening to some of her favorite music such as any song from the Frozen soundtrack and Bruno Mars’s “Just the Way You Are”. Baby Rain never failed to miss an opportunity to sing along to “Let It Go”; she would act out some of the hand gestures of creating ice and snow, tossing her crown, and even pulling the rubber band out of her braid.
Rain accomplished a lot within her 3 years of life. She learned to count to 10 and was working on 11 thru 20. She knew her primary colors and her favorite colors were pink and purple. It would seem as though Baby Rain knew she didn’t have very much time here on Earth. She was quick to learn, was always running a lot (at the playgrounds, she’d run from swing to slide and every other part), enjoyed going to new places, and trying something new. We found that we needed to show her how to do something only once and she could do it on her own. She was very independent.
Baby Rain loved traveling, going places – saying “I wanna go bye-bye”. Although she didn’t like being in her car seat for very long, she loved it when we checked into a motel or hotel (jumping on the beds), when we’d stop to get something to eat (eating in or getting it to go), she enjoyed stopping at rest stops to walk around, and most especially, when we’d arrive at our destinations.
Her favorite toy was her daddy. She enjoyed riding on his shoulders, blanket rolling, playful wrestling, hiding in his sweater, going on bike rides, riding in his car – everywhere she went, if she saw a blue car – it was “Daddy’s Car”; she particularly enjoyed their rides through muddy puddles and bumpy roads. Most of all, she loved airplane rides on his feet. Her favorite part was when he would make it look like she was giving him an airplane ride on her feet. Baby Rain loved it when her daddy would ball room dance with her; she would giggle and laugh so much – it will be one of the many sounds that will be greatly missed.
Baby Rain enjoyed being with and doing things with her daddy. They recently planted some small grass plants in little pots and she was so amazed when the grass sprouted. Her daddy taught her how to fly a kite, how to do tricks on her scooter, and how to play cars. Baby Rain, like her daddy, liked doing mechanic work on things; while her daddy worked on his car, she worked on her toys.
Baby Rain was very helpful with sweeping and mopping the sidewalks with her little broom and mop, putting laundry into the dryer, vacuuming and auto-winding the vacuum cord…she would always run to help, saying “I’ll do it, I’ll do it”. Baby Rain was very helpful with setting the table for meals; she made certain everyone prayed before eating. If you arrived at the table late, she made sure you put your hands together and said a prayer.
Baby Rain was fascinated with the evening sky. She enjoyed sitting outside looking up at the moon and stars. During the drives at night, she would look for the moon and when she spotted it, she’d yell “There it is!” Every time she went outside, Baby Rain would look up at the moon with amazement. Seeing her face glow in the moonlight was one of the most beautiful sites. She always made sure to find the moon and say “Hi Moon!”, “Bye Moon!”, or “Goodnight Moon!” Baby Rain gave us something else to remember her by-- now when we look up at the moon we know she is up there watching over us.
Baby Rain’s happiness meant so much to all who loved her. She will forever be in our hearts, our souls and in our memories. We can find comfort in knowing that we will see her again. We will once again hold her in our arms, kiss her forehead, and tell her how much we’ve missed her. For now, we will rely on our pictures, our videos, and our memories. We love you Baby Rain, and you’ll be missed dearly. Be our little guardian angel, and watch over us until we meet again.
Luce Funeral Chapel of Eagle Butte has been entrusted with Kubria’s arrangements.
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Dear Niece and Grandson; I am truly sorry for your loss, no amount of words at this time will ease the pain you are going through now, I am praying for your strength, and the comfort of mind, and to ease the pain that you are feeling. It doesn’t get any easier, but you will learn to continue on, and the Memories of your little Precious girl will help you. I love you both, and are in my prayers continually!
To The Family of "Baby Rain"
So Sorry to read about the death of your beautiful lovely little girl. Death is a extremely hard thing to endure, especially when it strikes a child. It will be a wonderful time when what’s recorded in the bible at Isaiah chap 28 verse 8 comes true. There God promises to swallow up death forever. This we can look forward to because the God who can’t lie (Titus chap 1 verse 2) promised it. I’ll pray for your family.
I’m sorry for your loss niece. Praying and thinking of you and your family at this moment of your mourning. God bless you and bring all of you comfort at this moment and the days ahead.
Keeping you all in my prayers. May God send his spirit of comfort to you all. With Love.
Melaine and Family
I am so sorry to hear of Baby Rain’s early journey to the Creators world. Your life has been blessed for her short time here, and her baby memories will keep you strong. My heart and hugs are with you, as you grieve. May the Creator help your heart and mind find strength to get through. Ska^no (Peace) to you all.
Melaine, Tommy & Rhaiyan <3 So Very Sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to all of you. May you Rest In Peace Baby Rain <3
i really miss you everytime we see you you are always giving us a hug you will always be in our hearts
Cora and family I am so very sorry for your loss I remember when you were pregnant with Kubria and when you had her how much you truly love your baby girl. She is an angel looking down and will forever be in your heart. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Melaine and Family,
I am extremely sorry for the loss of your little one. I have been praying for you and your heart as soon as I heard about the loss. My little church here in the mountains have sent up prayers for you and your family as well. I know you will need God’s Grace to get you through the days, months, and years ahead.
We Love You and may God keep you.
What a beautiful story Melaine. You all have such wonderful memories of Baby Rain. I’m very sorry to hear of your loss and I will continue to pray for you and your family.
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a precious babygirl♡ She is back with our Heavenly Father, where she will continue to watch over those she loved and those who cherished and loved her even more…I pray for strength, understanding and acceptance for the family of Baby Rain…may you all stay strong in prayer and keep the Faith that We will all see each other again some sweet day♡ Rest in Paradise Sweet Princess Baby Rain…I didn’t know you but you have touched my heart, as I am a grandmother of a precious little princess too…I will always remember the wonderful memories of you shared by your grandma and the rest of the family…May God Bless you all♡♡
Melaine,
I am so sorry you have lost your granddaughter. She was a beautiful little girl with lots of love to share. Thank you for sharing her life in words as I can relate to her every love. My daughter is 4 and I could not imagine the pain and emptiness you and your son must be feeling. You are all in my thoughts and prayers and yes, you will one day be united. May God bring you comfort and peace.
I am so sorry to hear the news about your recent loss of your dear child. I can not imagine your great feelings of loss. With my sincere condolences, I write you today. Your family are in my
thoughts and prayers. I am sending you a note of comfort and a sincere hope that
you can find peace at this hurtful time. Remember, Jesus even shed tears for his
friend “Lazarus" in the Bible-died. He also brought back to life of a little girl which made me think of your sweet Baby Rain. Death is a very hurtful enemy of the living.
(Revelation 21:1-4)
I found comfort with my mothers lost at age thirteen, by reading scriptures. I received a letter similar to this one, with a similar message. I found reading and searching for God and his promises helped. I visited a website (JW.ORG) and It is full of scriptures of Hope and information about the Bible, and I loved the resurrection hope the bible talks about. I am sure you will as well. Its encouraging and peaceful.
With all my prayers to your family, and deepest sympathy.
Sincerely Yours,
Helen West
I am so sorry to hear the news about your recent loss of your dear child. I can not imagine your great feelings of loss. With my sincere condolences, I write you today. Your family are in my
thoughts and prayers. I am sending you a note of comfort and a sincere hope that
you can find peace at this hurtful time. Remember, Jesus even shed tears for his
friend “Lazarus" in the Bible-died. He also brought back to life of a little girl which made me think of your sweet Baby Rain. Death is a very hurtful enemy of the living.
(Revelation 21:1-4)
I found comfort with my mothers lost at age thirteen, by reading scriptures. I received a letter similar to this one, with a similar message. I found reading and searching for God and his promises helped. I visited a website (JW.ORG) and It is full of scriptures of Hope and information about the Bible, and I loved the resurrection hope the bible talks about. I am sure you will as well. Its encouraging and peaceful.
With all my prayers to your family, and deepest sympathy.
Sincerely Yours,
Helen West