Raymond Naber
November 8, 1940 ~ January 2, 2017
Raymond Leonard Naber, 76, of Miller, passed away in the early morning hours of January 2, 2017 at the Avera Dougherty Hospice House in Sioux Falls with his wife Patricia and other family members close by.
A rosary service began at 3:00 p.m. followed by a 3:30 p.m. prayer service, Sunday, January 8, 2017 at St. Ann’s Catholic Church, Miller. Mass of Christian Burial was held at 3:00 p.m., Monday, January 9, 2017 at St. Ann’s Catholic Church, Miller with Father Chester Murtha, celebrant. Burial will be at St. Ann’s Cemetery, Miller at a later day.
Ray was born November 8, 1940 in Mitchell, SD to Leonard and Emily (Mullaney) Naber. He was raised on a farm in the Polo area and attended both country and catholic school, graduating from Fairview High School in Polo in 1958. He married Patricia Lakner in October 1962 at St. Joseph's church in Wessington, SD and they settled on their farmstead north of Miller where he lived until his death. Ray and Pat raised three boys Michael (1963), Jeffrey (1964), and Jason (1970) on the farm where Ray instilled in them a strong work ethic, a dry sense of humor, and an unwavering commitment to family. He farmed and ranched for over fifty years, a profession which suited his independent nature. Even after retiring from farming his own ground, he enjoyed working with his nephew on his farming operation.
Ray enjoyed several hobbies over his lifetime. He was an excellent pool player, placing in several tournaments in his younger years and had just recently returned to shooting in a pool league. He knew his way around a dart board as well, playing league with Pat for thirteen years. His most-loved hobby, though, was that of supporting his children and grandchildren in their many sporting endeavors, and attended countless football, basketball, baseball, and softball games, along with cross-country and swim meets.
Known as "Gramps" to his grandchildren, he simply loved being home on the farm. One of his favorite places to be was in his chair with one or more of his grandkids draped around him. He enjoyed taking all of his children and grandchildren for rides around the farm and through the pasture, especially over "Thrill Hill" which never failed to make the kids scream and Gramps laugh. He was a classic strong and silent type, but his love for, and his pride in his family and his home was never in doubt.
He is survived by his wife, Patricia; sons, Michael (Amy) Naber of Shakopee, MN and Jeffrey Naber of Miller; daughter-in-law, Michelle Naber of Miller; siblings: David (Tammy) Naber of Richfield, ID, Patricia (Gary) LaFurge of Hoven, and Judy (Bill) Lemmel of Lakewood, CO; and his six beloved grandchildren: Jordan Ray, Cody Thomas, Casey Ray, Luke Augustus, Gabrielle Elizabeth, and Michael Patrick Naber.
Ray was preceded in death by his parents, Leonard and Emily Naber; youngest son, Jason; and his wife's parents, John and Elizabeth (Wernsmann) Lakner.
Reck Funeral Home of Miller has been entrusted with Ray’s arrangements.




My sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Raymond. The loss of our dear loved ones can be very difficult and distressing to cope with. True comfort comes in knowing that Jehovah ( Psalm 83 : 18 – God’s name ) is not the cause of our pain, suffering and death, Hebrews 2 : 14 tells us the source. May you be comforted in knowing that Jehovah hates death ( 1 Corinthian 15 : 26 ) and promises to eliminate death forever and bring ones sleeping in death back to life on a cleansed earth. ( John 17 : 3; Isaiah 25 : 7,8; Revelation 21 : 3-5; Acts 24 : 15; Psalms 37 : 10,11, 29 ). Also, may your own good and loving memories of Raymond help to soothe your hearts, as we remember that our dear loved ones now safely rest in the loving memory of our Grand Creator, Jehovah God, waiting for the fulfillment of His promised purpose for us all. Sincerely
Our Deepest Sympathy to All. Ray was such a nice man. Enjoyed playing pool with him and great conversation. Fly with the Angels, Ray. Until we meet again, Friend. Rest Well.😇❤✌
Pat and family, Sorry to hear about Ray, we are praying all your many memories will help you in this sad time.
Sorry for loss and he will missed. Here is a kiss for to take to Heaven with you. Our Deepest Sympathy Dr. Dick and Kathy Splichal
Sorry for your loss he was a good man . He will be missed.
You have our sympathy. Jerome Venjohn Family
Dear Pat and all- Sincerest sympathy to all of you in your loss of Ray. May you feel God’s loving arms around you in the days to come. Blessings to all the family.
Dear Patty and Family, I am sorry to read the news about Ray, a good man. With sympathy and friendship and prayers to sustain you, sincerely, LaVaughn and Jan B.
Pat, Mike, and Jeff and family, So sorry to hear about Ray’s passing. I remember him always smiling or chuckling. I know that he will be sorely missed! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time!
So sorry my friend…may the knowledge that Ray is resting in the loving arms of his Heavenly Father bring you peace.
Thoughts and prayers to all. Ray was one of a kind. Always enjoyed my visits with him.
To Pat, Mike and Jeff, my deepest sympathy in this sad time, he is in a good place now
Dear Pat and family, we are so very sorry to hear of the loss of Ray. He was such a kind hearted person and will be sadly missed by all who knew him. We pray that God wraps his arms around you, giving you strength to endure the pain you are feeling, also praying that he comforts you all during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers to you all. Don & Mona Magnuson
MIKE AND JEFF SORRY To HEAR ABOUT YOUR DAD ALWAYS REMEMBER TALKING TO HIM IN THE PONDERSOA AFTER MY BASKETBALL GAMES HE WILL B MISSED MY COLEDENCES
Pat and family. I am so sorry for your loss! May God wrap his loving arms around you.
Such a beautifully written tribute for a wonderful man. Many good memories . You are all in my thoughts and prayers Sincerely, Jenise
I want to offer my condolences at this time. Raymond will be in my thoughts and prayers. Brent Naber
Pat and Family, we are sorry for your loss. Thinking of you at this difficult time.
So sorry to hear about this, he was a great guy. You will be missed and forever in our hearts, now go dance a jig with Angels Pops.
Dear Pat and family, Our hearts go out to you during this time of Ray’s passing. You’ve had a hard go of it lately in the battle for his well-being. We hope you will take the coming days to remember the good times, to be refreshed and recoup and go on to finish your life’s race strongly. God is with you in all of it, as well as loving friends and family. Peace be with you, Deb and Brian
Sorry for your loss Pat. Prayers for you and your family
Thoughts and prayers go out to the Naber family.
Thoughts and prayers of sympathy to Pat and family
My deepest afflicitations to Patty and all the family!!! Ray was a great man.
Pat and family – I am so sorry to hear about Ray. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. Pat, I remember all the good times we all had together. RIP Ray!
The best to Pat and boys. Ray was the easiest person to talk to no matter where or when.
Sorry to hear of the loss.
I was so sad to hear about Ray’s death. I am with my daughter in MN and have been in and out of the hospital and TCU’s. The first thing I thought of was how much I enjoyed meeting him and Pat for lunch, with Mary, Norman and Gerald. Wonderful visits and such fun stories.