Patty Stoner

patty stoner

May 26, 1935 ~ June 12, 2020

Patricia Stoner, 85, of Marshall, MN and formally of Gettysburg, SD, passed away Friday, June 12, 2020 at Avera Marshall Regional Medical Center, Marshall, MN. It is with great sadness that the family announces Patty’s sudden passing. Patty was surrounded by her family as she peacefully passed away.

Memorial Service was held at 10:00 a.m., Friday, June 19, 2020 at Emmanuel Lutheran Church, Gettysburg, with Pastor David Otten presiding. Burial followed in the Lebanon Cemetery. A prayer service was held at 7:00 p.m., Thursday, June 18, 2020 at the church with visitation one-hour prior.

Patricia Mae Stoner was born May 26, 1935, in Lebanon, South Dakota, to Harold and Edna Anderson. Patty lived in Gettysburg until she and Lyle moved to Marshall, MN in June 2018.     

A native of Lebanon, South Dakota, Patty attended Lebanon Public School where she graduated Valedictorian at the age of seventeen. She later continued her education and graduated from Northern State University, and soon after began her teaching career for many years.

Patty and Lyle Stoner were united in marriage in 1951 and were blessed with two daughters: Debra Lee Stoner (Greg) Jensen and Vicki Lynn Stoner Beckler. They were then truly blessed with four grandchildren: Justin Jensen, Jenna Jensen Hansen, Jason Beckler, and Kyle Beckler. Later they were further blessed with four great-grandchildren: Reid Beckler, Thea Beckler, Elliott Hansen, and Emmett Hansen.  

Patty was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She so enjoyed her family and the various family activities that consumed much of her time, such as: camping, boating, snowmobiling, horse showing, 4-H, motorcycling, her 1957 Chevrolet, and attending music concerts involving family members. Her main passion has always been education, and in her words “moulding young people’s minds”.

Patty began her teaching career in 1957, and for the first few years of her career taught in rural schools, later moving into the Gettysburg Public School District. Patty devoted her life to the betterment of her students, school, and community. She was a true testament to what every educator hopes to achieve during their career. Her many students have expressed how fortunate they feel to have had not only a teacher that gave high level instruction and education, but someone who also dedicated herself to her students in the same manner she dedicated herself to her family. It came as no surprise to her past students, co-workers, friends and family when she received an executive proclamation from the State of South Dakota, and Governor Daugaard, recognizing and commemorating her many years to the teaching profession.

Left to cherish her memory are her two daughters, Vicki Beckler, and Debra (Greg) Jensen; four grandchildren: Jason (Amanda) Beckler, Kyle (Sara) Beckler, Jenna (Kent) Hansen, Justin (Mackenzie) Jensen; four great-grandchildren: Reid Beckler, Thea Beckler, Elliott Hansen, Emmett Hansen; and sister Terri (Duane) Hopkins.

Preceding Patty in death was her husband, Lyle Stoner; parents, Harold and Edna Anderson; brothers, Robert Anderson, Donnie Anderson, and Ted Anderson.  

Patty will be deeply missed by her family, friends, and all who knew her. Her family would like to thank all of you for your friendship. Blessed be the memory of Patty Stoner.

Luce Funeral Home of Gettysburg has been entrusted with Patty’s arrangements. (www.familyfuneralhome.net)

 

A Prayer Service was held on June 18, 2020 at 7:00 PM at Emmanuel Lutheran Church, 601 E Logan Ave in Gettysburg, SD 57442
A Funeral Service was held on June 19, 2020 at 10:00 AM at Emmanuel Lutheran Church, 601 E Logan Ave in Gettysburg, SD 57442
A Graveside Service was held on June 19, 2020 at 12:00 PM at Lebanon Cemetery, Hwy 47 in Lebanon, SD 57455

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  1. Deb & Vicki– I am so sorry to hear this. She was a great person, and will truly be missed. Thoughts and prayers for all…

  2. It is long ago and far away time again. Rhoda and I send our condolences to the family, many of whom I grew up with, many I have never met. It occurs to me as long as Patty taught school, someone should commission a bronze statue in honor of her and every student that passed under her wing. Oh well, we are all soon forgotten.

  3. I was so sad to hear of Mrs. Stoners passing. She was my 6th and 7th grade teacher. She was an amazing teacher and beautiful person. Thank you for being our teacher. You will be so missed by all who passed through your class. ❤Kim

  4. Worked for Patty and Lyle for 15 yrs. Learned a lot about working from them. Thoughts, prayers and big hugs to Deb, Vicki and their families. Patty and Lyle are back together again. He might even be getting his butt chewed again at which he would just grin.

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  5. Mrs Stoner was an AMAZING teacher, i loved being in her classes and talking with her, learning about her family and for her to be there through my tough times as well. I cant believe that she is gone, she is truly an amazing, loving woman, bless her soul and her family! Thinking of you guys! 

  6. Patty was an amazing woman and an even better teacher. She was my son's biggest ally and loudest cheerleader…She didn't ever miss an opportunity to hug him- even as an adult when he towered over her… Never did we EVER wonder how Patty felt about anyone or any topic. She was an open book and one of the best people I have ever known. I'm so thankful for her loving and teaching my sons. (And my husband!)

  7. Sympathies to Patty’s family.
    I knew Patty at Northern where we both attended college;  my years were 1953-57.
    She was probably the only married gal in our dorm.
    I also read the article stating she was still teaching at “such an advanced age!”
    Vera Bassett

  8. I had the wonderful pleasure of getting to know bits and pieces of Patty's world while we created and designed the memory pillows after Lyle passed. Her gentleness, kindness and sweet demeanor still carries through me today. I am so thankful I was able to share some very special tender moments and tears with her gentle sassy soul.

  9. We met Lyle and Patty many years ago while showing horses and we always looked forward to seeing them each show season. They were quite the pair! She spoke about her teaching career with pride, as well she should have! Her students were lucky to have had her. Our sympathies to her family. 

  10. Deb and Vicki,,
    So sorry for your loss. She was a fun loving lady. Hold on to the memories.


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