Bernice Parmely

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December 11, 1938 ~ March 19, 2019

Bernice Parmely, 80, of Miller, passed away Tuesday, March 19, 2019 at the Good Samaritan Society in Miller.

Funeral service was held at 2:30 p.m., Saturday, March 23, 2019 at Trinity Lutheran Church, Miller with Rev. Max Miller officiating. Burial will be at G.A.R. Cemetery, Miller. Visitation was held from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m., Friday, March 22, 2019 with a 7:00 p.m. prayer service with Rev. Brian Jones officiating, all at the church.

Bernice Ethel Christensen was born December 11, 1938 in Montrose, South Dakota to Mary (Mustar) and Henry Christensen. She graduated from Montrose High School in 1956. In 1958, she graduated with her two year teaching degree from General Beadle State Teachers College. In 1973, she graduated with her Bachelor’s Degree from Dakota State College. She taught for 38 years in the Miller School District before retiring; returning part-time for several years after.

She was a member of Trinity Lutheran Church in Miller; South Dakota Education Association, Easter Star Crescent #4 Miller, and was in the Lutheran Ladies Quilting Group.

Bernice was always busy reading, knitting, crocheting, or sewing. She was a world class knitter, knitting numerous baby blankets, wash rags, scarves, and always trying a new knitting project. She was very active in the Lutheran Quilting Group until the last few months. Many Christmas’s we would receive a new craft/knitting project she had hand made that year, such as sweaters, snowmen, burlap wreaths, stockings, blankets, scrubbies, or dish rags. Our family will cherish the numerous handmade items she gifted us with. We love them!

On February 2, 1963 she married Robert “Bob” Schubloom. He was killed in an accident on November 30, 1977. Bernice was united in marriage to Merlyn Parmely on July 13, 1979, upon which she was blessed with a ready-made family. They enjoyed camping, fishing, and going to the river and the Black Hills.

Survivors include her step-children: Mike (Roxanne) Parmely of Harrold, Sandra (Neil) Stevens of Miller, Rod (Jean) Parmely of Watertown, and Jeff (Margie) Parmely of Miller; grandchildren: Brad Parmely, Eric Parmely, Grady Oakley, Cole (Sierra) Oakley, Jessica (Eric) Oolman, Casie Stevens, Andrea (Matthew) Jones, Clate (Jessica) Stevens, Jay (Courtney) Parmely, Jen (Derek) Degen, Tara Parmely, and Trevor Parmely; great grandchildren: Joslynn, Montana, Jerzy and Tatum Parmley; Grey Oakley; Brayden and Jace Oolman; Mia and Rowdy Jones; Owen Stevens; Beckham and Reese Parmely; and Gabriella Degen; brother: Dean (Judi) Christensen; and sister-in-law: Nancy Christensen (Ray) Alsgaard.

She was preceded in death by her husbands: Merlyn Parmely and Bob Schubloom; her parents; and brother, Henry Jr.

Reck Funeral Home of Miller has been entrusted with Bernice's arrangements.

A Visitation was held on March 22, 2019 at 5:00 PM at Trinity Lutheran Church, 707 East 1st Ave in Miller, South Dakota 57362
A Prayer Service was held on March 22, 2019 at 7:00 PM at Trinity Lutheran Church, 707 East 1st Ave in Miller, South Dakota 57362
A Funeral Service was held on March 23, 2019 at 2:30 PM at Trinity Lutheran Church, 707 East 1st Ave in Miller, South Dakota 57362
A Graveside Service was held on March 23, 2019 at 5:00 PM at G.A.R. Cemetery in Miller, South Dakota

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  1.  Sorry to hear of your loss.    Thinking of you. Virginia Jenner

  2. Dear Parmely Family …..You are in our thoughts and prayers as you lay Bernie to rest. May God bless and comfort you.

  3. Love you, Aunt Bernie. I have warm memories of you from when I was a kid. Even though the miles apart didn’t get us together very often, I remember your laugh and how good you always were to us.

  4. Sorry for your loss Our Deepest Sympathy Dick and Kathy Sympathy

  5. Love to all of Bernice’s family. Larry and Sherry Van Zee

  6. Our deepest sympathy to you.

  7. Parmely family you have a grand lady who will be missed very much by us.Wonderful memories going to Faulkton to the Quilt Shop ,and Huron picking out our crafts supplies. We had a path between our houses running back and forth with questions and showing each other our craft items. Also we had the best time at Bernie when us ladies would come for coffee. Boy did we have fun laughing .I miss my friend very much, God has her in his care now.

  8. Sorry for loss, she will be missed. My thoughs and prayers are with you.

  9. Deepest condolences to all of Bernice’s family. Bernice was truly a great and special Lady. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. God Bless

  10. My deepest condolences to your Family, I will always remember her as the kind lady she was, she tutored me when I was a little kid and always said hello whenever she would see me. They don’t seem to make them like her anymore she’ll always be thought of fondly.

  11. It has been our honor and privilege to care for Bernice. Thank you for allowing us to care and love on them. We hope you are finding peace and rest during this new transition. ~AseraCare Hospice Team 


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