James Dittman

james dittman

August 1, 1949 ~ March 30, 2020

     James "Jim" Dittman, 70, of Highmore, passed away Monday, March 30, 2020 at Avera St. Mary's Hospital in Pierre after one last slug fest with Multiple Sclerosis (MS).

     Due to the current threat of the Covid-19 pandemic and restrictions, private viewing was held at 3:00 p.m., Wednesday, April 1, 2020 at Luze Funeral Home, Highmore with burial following at the Highmore Cemetery.  A public celebration will be held at a later date.  If you would like to honor Jim in the meantime, go ahead and work 28 hours per day, 8 days a week.

     James Walter Dittman was born August 1, 1949 to Fred and Pearl (Bawdon) Dittman. His childhood rivaled a Huck Finn adventure:  taking care of livestock on the family farm, spending more time outside than inside of his one-room country schoolhouse (After he had walked there. Uphill. Both ways. Probably in a blizzard.), learning life lessons the hard way, and pranking the local police. “Wildman” graduated from Highmore High School in 1967.

     Legend has it, Jim’s farming career began at the ripe old age of six when his dad grew tired of him constantly being underfoot, so he allowed Jim to drive his own tractor and haying equipment. His life-long love affair with (aka addiction to) the cattle business began as a teen “with one calf and my dad’s corn”.  Jim was well-respected for his keen eye for quality and his livestock marketing abilities. While Jim generally preferred dealing with animals over people, he befriended a wide range of characters in the livestock industry over the years.  

     Throughout his entire life, Jim considered the phrase “you can’t” as a personal challenge and took extreme pleasure in proving others wrong.  This was never more evident than after he was diagnosed with MS at the age of 36.  He refused to use his disease and disability as an excuse; instead he relied on grit and stubbornness to expand his business and continue to support his family.  Even as his disease progressed, he continued to put in a full day’s work.

     The best decision Jim ever made was marrying his high school sweetheart, Shirley Kusser, on February 1, 1969.  Shirley served as the dedicated mother to his children, farm labor, secretary, cook, and later Jim’s sole caregiver despite his advanced disease.  Together they raised three daughters.  His preference would have been three boys but it turns out girls can be great farmhands too.  Jim frequently reminded his girls how lucky they were to “get to” work with him all summer and he loved to take credit for their work ethic.

     His grandchildren will remember their Papa for allowing them to “drive” his pickup with his assistance around the farm as preschoolers, and then independently once they met his stringent qualification of being able to both reach the gas pedal and see out the windshield; their partnerships to secure dessert from Grandma; giving them the opportunity to operate farm equipment; and allowing them to do almost anything else they wanted.

     Jim fought the war MS had waged against him every day for over 34 years. Knowing that Jim likes to have the last word and is a sore loser, we think he would point out the pain and suffering of MS died with him, so technically they ended in a tie.

      Left to tell stories about the grumpy guy are his wife, Shirley; daughters: Jackie (Steve) Peck of Prosper, TX, Deb (Collin) Gengerke of Groton, SD, and Bridget Dittman of Franklin, TN; grandchildren:  Kendra, Devon, Jenna, and Grant Peck; Patrick, Trey, and Brooke Gengerke; and Brandon Bates; and numerous extended family members.

     Jim’s dad and father-in-law, Joe greeted him and his pristine new body on the other side with some perfectly prepared beef and a huge serving of cake and ice cream before they set out for the feedlot.

     Luze Funeral Home of Highmore has been entrusted with Jim's arrangements. 

A Visitation was held on April 1, 2020 at 3:00 PM at Luze Funeral Home, 306 S. Iowa St. in Highmore, South Dakota 57345
A Private Burial was held on April 1, 2020 at 3:30 PM at Highmore Cemetery in Highmore, South Dakota 57345

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  1. Shirley and family, So very sorry to hear your loss. He was a great guy and will be missed.

  2. Shirley and girls:
    So sorry for your loss..Jim was a fun guy to be around..We know that he is in a better place and dancing with the angels!! Take care wish I could come see you Shirley but it a crazy world out their right now..God Bless you all!!

  3. To the whole family we are sorry to hear of your loss. We send our sincerest condolences to the whole family. RIP Cousin Jim.

  4. You have our sympathy And prayers 

  5. All my sympathy to the Family/Legacy Jim established. I always enjoyed being around him, pretty sure I was either laughing or shaking my head when each occurrence ended, both of which were plenty cool. I'll never forget him wearing shorts and boots, or some wild costume, to a fund raising deal in the Auditorium when we were kids. It was very skilled comedy, because he didn't act like anything was out of the ordinary the whole time! Hope the memories keep you all smiling as well. Take Good Care, DK

  6. Hugs of sympathy to Shirley Ann and family. I always enjoyed having a visit with Jim when we came back to Highmore.  His sense of humor couldn’t help but make a person smile.  Hugging you all in my heart as you deal with life at this difficult time. Mikey

  7. I reported the cattle auctions as the USDA Market News Reporter for the Faith and Philip auctions and saw him there several times. It was always a pleasure.

  8. I was able to meet jim a couple of times as a custom feeder for him. I could tell the first time I met him he was a hard worker and very proud of it..so sorry for your loss.

  9. Jim’s tribute/ obituary is spot on! With our sympathy and respect for Jim and Shirley and their beautiful family.

  10. Love and endless prayers sent to you Shirley and your daughters. I have so many fun memories of Jim, always brings a smile to my face thinking of him!! He will be deeply missed, a celebration of an amazing life is definitely in order!! Hugging you in my heart ❤️!!

  11. May God grant peace and the laughter of good times remembered to you all.  
    Gordon and Cynthia Sampson

  12. My deepest condolences to all of Jim's family. I am keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. God Bless

  13. Sending hugs from all of the Harvey girls and Dustin. 

  14. Sending our sympathy & prayers to you, Shirley & Family

  15. Shirley and Family-
    Jim was a man that I hold an admiration for and am better person for knowing. You guys were always a joy to talk to. Every time I did I learned something-whether it was work or social visit. We had alot of counseling sessions-he always had a perspective that I appreciated and gave something to ponder. My prayers are with you.

  16. Shirley and family,  thinking of you during this difficult time. Wish we could all be together to show our support. RIP Uncle Jim. 

  17. Shirley and family, my sympathy to all.  I always called him Fred. The obituary tells a great and vivid story. Well done. Kay

  18. Shirley and family. Our deepest sympathy,  so sorry for your loss Jim is going to be missed,  he is no longer suffering.   Take care and stay safe

  19. So sorry for your family's loss.

  20. So sorry for your loss.  He is smiling down on all of you  

  21. Sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He will certainly be missed by many. I will never forget some of the shenanigans we engaged induring HS. He was one of my best HS friends. RIP buddy. Condolences to Shirley and family.

  22. Thinking of your family during this time. May his memories comfort you!

  23. Was sorry to hear of Jim passing ,he would always make me smile with his perspective of things .My thoughts and prayers are with you Shirley and your family. God Bless ,Steve

  24. Clayton, Jennifer, Kyra, Kyanna Gropper says:

    We are thinking of all of you. Hard not to be together, but sending our love and prayers. 

  25. Dittman family,

    With great sorrow and sympathy I heard of Jim's death. I really liked Jim alot and appreciate d his wisdom, I will forever cherish our visits.
    My prayers to the whole family, Shirley you are a saint god bless.

  26. Hugs to Jim's family. It was always easy talking to Jim about pretty much anything. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  27. I learned a lot from Jim. He took my excuses away when I had an ache or a pain. I will miss our late night phone conversations . Praying God’s peace and strength over you and your family Shirley. Sincerely, Dean and Pam

  28. Jim May you Rest In Peace and will always be thankful when the day before my wedding you agreed to be an attendant in my wedding. Hugs to Shirley and the families. Paul and Nancy

  29. Shirley and Family,
    We are so sad for you all, even more so during this difficult time when extended family and friends are not able to gather.  We are sending long distance hugs. God bless and take care of each other. 

  30. Shirley and Family,
    We are so sad for you all, even more so during this difficult time when extended family and friends are not able to gather.  We are sending long distance hugs. God bless and take care of each other. 

  31. Shirley and Family, Was sorry to read of Jim's passing. I always admired both of you and truly enjoyed the visits we had

  32. Shirley, I am so very sorry for your loss! It always made my day to see you& Jim . He will be missed!Hugs and Prayers,Helen

  33. So sorry big sis.  My heart breaks for you!  Sending love and prayers to the entire family.  

  34. So sorry for your loss, sending thoughts and prayers for you all.

  35. so sorry to hear of Jim's passing but I believe you are right that he would claim a tie. He left quite a legacy and was respected by many.

  36. Sorry to hear of your loss Shirley 

  37. To all the Dittman family you have our sincerest condolences.

  38. We are sorry for your sorrow. Thinking of you. We will say a prayer for you.
    Love
    Cindy Heckenlaible Meinen

  39. Janice Ellsworth Purrington says:

    What a beautiful tribute.  My sincere sympathy to Shirley and family.

  40. What a lovely remembrance of Jim!  It fits him well.  I am so sorry for your loss. Wrap up in all those great memories in the days ahead. 

  41. You have our sympathy and prayers

  42. Jim was one of a kind and I also enjoyed our phone conversations as he would always try to beat down my distillers price. Rest in peace my friend.

  43. Shirley & family
    So sorry for your loss. & what a perfect obit tribute. Your whole family is in out thought

  44. Ronnie and I are thinking of your family at this time. What a great fella he was. I enjoyed him very much anytime I was around him.

  45. Shirley and family
    Regretfully I heard of Jim's passing and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Not many would have exhibited the grit and determination that Jim and yourself have through his battle with MS while still doing what he loved. Although we have not crossed paths in recent years I have thought of you both often as always enjoyed visiting and listening to Jim's insight on cattle and agriculture. He was always an inspiration.


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