Mary K. Williams

mary k. williams

October 6, 1921 ~ March 30, 2015



Marie Catherine Barnett Williams, known as Mary K., 93, of Gettysburg, died at her home Monday, March 30, 2015.

Mass of Christian Burial will be 2:30 p.m., Monday, April 6, 2015 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Gettysburg with Father Jerry Kopel officiating. Burial of the cremains will be held at a later date. A reception will follow in the church fellowship hall with ice cream and oreos served in her honor.

Born Oct. 6, 1921 to George Richard and Ruth Theresa (Bauch) Barnett in Sioux Falls, SD, Mary K. was the third of 10 children born to the Barnett family. She was raised in Sioux Falls where she graduated with honors from Cathedral High School in 1939. She was Prefect of the Sodality her senior year and was involved in numerous activities, including music, theatre, and cheerleading. She attended the College of St. Catherine in St. Paul, MN on an academic scholarship until her marriage to Terrence M. Williams, her neighbor from Sioux Falls, on Feb. 5, 1942.

Her husband left to serve as a P38 fighter pilot in World War II, and Mary K. was at home with their baby, Terry Jr. At the war’s end in 1945 they moved to Gettysburg and later made their home on the family farm south of town. There they raised five boys and, in later years, two daughters. 

Mary K. was active in her community as a den mother for the Boy Scouts, a Girl Scout leader, and was the Girl Scout Neighborhood Chairman. She was a member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church where she directed the choir for many years. Throughout the years she was a member of the Women’s Literary Society, Hospital Auxiliary, American Legion Auxiliary, VFW Auxiliary, and Mother’s Club. She played the part of Mrs. Santa at community events, was Mardi Gras Queen in 1969, and was the Chamber of Commerce Citizen of the Year. She earned her Golden Eaglet in Girl Scouts, and was honored with numerous community accolades. 

She loved singing, made amazing whole-wheat bread, and thought costumes were a great way to liven a party.

Survivors include her sons Terrence M. (Judy) of Rapid City, Michael (Ann) of Lemmon, Bruce (Peggy) of Gettysburg, Richard “Bill” (Emily) of Aberdeen, Jay (Carol) of Yankton, and daughters Kara of Taos, NM, and Molly (Harry McRoberts) of Gettysburg; 27 grandchildren; a gaggle of great-grandchildren; brothers Dr. Lou (Maggie) Barnett and Don (Marilyn) Barnett of Sioux Falls; sisters-in-law Kay Barnett of Terre Haute, IN, and Liz Williams Bogue of Rapid City, SD.

She was preceded in death by her husband in 1998, her brother Richard in infancy, her sister Sheila at age two, her brothers Bob and Jack, sisters Barb, Patricia, and Jane, and grandson Dan. 

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the Gettysburg Hospital Auxiliary, 606 E Garfield, Gettysburg, SD 57442 or Gettysburg Community Foundation, PO Box 33, Gettysburg, SD 57442.

Luce Funeral Home of Gettysburg has been entrusted with Mary K.'s arrangements.

 

 

 

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  1. I am sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Am thinking of her familty and know that you are in my prayers.

  2. My condolensces about the passing of Mary K… she was always a favorite patient of mine. 93 is a good age. Will be thinking about your whole family in the days to come. Steve and Marcy Knoble

  3. Among my earliest childhood Christmas memories was the evening at the Williams. Mary K. knew it wasn’t where I wanted to be- Two girls younger than me added to the mix didn’t exactly appeal to a ten year old boy who had new presents at home. But Mary K. made such an effort for me (I felt like she made ME the honored guest). When we got there, she showed me all the treats and sweets she made for me. She made sure the older boys took me if the went outside. I never ever saw Mary K. Without thinking she was the best hostess ever. Williams family, you have my deepest condolences and I pray you find comfort and peace by noting her influence as you go about your day. She may have died but she lives and loves you even more today and tomorrow. P.S. Never knew there is a Sioux Falls connection. Molly, I will ask you next time I see you.

  4. Dear Family of Mary K.,
    My deepest sympathy, prayers, blessings and love are extended to all of you. May Our Loving Heavenly Father bring Eternal Joy to May K., and also His Comfort and Consolation to all of you! I will offer a special Mass here in Sioux Falls for Mary K., ‘s Eternal Happiness and For Peace and Comfort to all of you!
    My Love and Prayers,
    Msgr. Steve Barnett…..Cousin

  5. Dear Family of Mary K.,
    My deepest sympathy, prayers, blessings and love are extended to all of you. May Our Loving Heavenly Father bring Eternal Joy to May K., and also His Comfort and Consolation to all of you! I will offer a special Mass here in Sioux Falls for Mary K., ‘s Eternal Happiness and For Peace and Comfort to all of you!
    My Love and Prayers,
    Msgr. Steve Barnett…..Cousin

  6. I am so sorry for your loss, your mom was a loving and caring person to all who of us who shared your lives. My very first choir director at church and a supporter of the arts and music. She will be missed.

  7. Our continued prayers to Mary’s family. Years ago…I can recall the late Kathryn Loitwood telling me what a great Literary Club member Mary was…and a dear friend too.

  8. Sorry for the loss of your mother. May the many good memories carry you through these days. Hugs and Prayers to all of the family. Ben and Loni Shoup

  9. sorry for your loss – Mary k was a very special lady. She was my Girl Scout leader and always very kind and sincere.

  10. We have fond memories of Mary K and the entire Williams family during our years in Gettysburg…..Mary K was a wonderful teacher, leader and friend. She will be greatly missed. God bless you!
    The Fowler family, Ben, Janet, Gwen, Leigh, Dan, Mary, and Doug

  11. Expressions of Sympathy Deanell Backlund has sent this Expressions of Sympathy card.

  12. Kathy Barnett (Jack & Kay) says:

    I will never forget my Aunt Kate. Thinking of all my William’s cousins with love and prayers.

  13. The Gray’s will always have fond memories of Grandma Williams from the family farm and spending Easter dinners with the Williams family in Chamberlain.

  14. The Gray’s will always have fond memories of Grandma Williams from the family farm and spending Easter dinners with the Williams family in Chamberlain.

  15. Please accept my sincere condolences. Mary K.’s passing is a loss for the whole Gettysburg community and for all those who ever knew her all these years.

  16. Kathy (Barnett) Dahlenburg says:

    Was so sorry to hear of Aunt Kate passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  17. Monsignor Charles M. Mangan says:

    J.M.J. I am grateful that Kara informed me of her +Mother’s passing. May she rest in peace. This morning, I offered the Holy Mass for the happy repose of the Soul of +Mary K. May Jesus, Mary and Saint Joseph bless all who mourn the departure of +Mary K. from this life.


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